In today's world its very common for male or female to come out with a statement that " I dont love you any more but like you". The changing dynamics of society is accepting that trend with open arm. As both the side feel the pain for few days then moves on.
Scenario gets
changed in a country like India where the tradition of arranged marriage is
more than Love marriage. In India now a days both girl and boy are allowed to
meet each other in front of family member like toys to understand the liking
and disliking. Girls in that scenario really feel uncomfortable but under
family pressure she generally surrender and in order to keep her parents happy;
she went through the embarrassment.
Then comes the
real negotiation when guy parents says" we donot want anything but newly
wed couple need comfortable life which include decent car to household" .
After few days when discussion comes to venue then guy parents want it big and
select 5 star or farm house to show it to their relative.
Then comes how
much money girl is going to bring it to new family. These days guys are so
handicapped that they dont have the voice to protect the girl post engagement
even though they are engineers. They follow parents decision wherein they never
listen to their parents when it comes to dating other girls to drinks to smoke
Then comes the
shattering part when guy parents decide to break the engagement on behalf of
guy as if father in law was supposed to get married to girl.
Indian girls are
very sensitive and emotional in nature. These social happening and then sudden
breakdown takes them to depression while guy goes out in the make to sell his
degree with money. I want to ask the society that why everyone think that its
tradition. All of us should stand together and boycott that family so that
other learns from that.
I believe this
article will bring few guys to level where he can have the guts to stand for
the girl
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